MARRIAGE is not a contract or an
arrangement for cohabitation of a man and wife
with a view to attaining biological satisfaction. It is an
institution by itself. It brings the bride and the groom
spiritually and materially closer insists on their taking
a solemn vow to live happily in implicit love and with
mutual faith, confidence and good-will. Even according to
the present Hindu law a marriage is defined to be legally
solemnised only when the ritual, known as saptapadi
or "seven steps", is performed. Mantras recited at this
ritual in the form of a spiritual conversation between the
bridegroom and the bride are quite potential and sanguine
and are pregnant with meaning.
Hindu shastras stipulate five conditions for the remarriage of an once-married girl These are similar to those contained in the present Hindu Law of India, viz., a girl of re-marriageable age can be permitted to choose another life partner of her choice only if her (first) husband is lost, dies at very very young age, becomes a mendicant, proves to be impotent or incapable of performing sex or is fallen from the society— apparently due to his own misdeeds. But alas ! these days divorce and re-marriages have become a fashion and prestige and even the court procedures have been much simplified to encourage divorce.
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